why don't boys like me!? HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP!

All of my guys friends always talk to me, and we flirt and stuff, but they all only seem to like me as a cute bestfriend to talk to all the time, and all the guys i start to really like, don't take me seriously and aren't interested, :( is there something i'm not doing right? whats wrong with me!?

Final Results

1st.
sometimes being friends with boys is better then dating
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50%
2nd.
you're too good of friends
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32%
3rd.
always be the girl that guys wanna be bff;s with
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14%
4th.
you're not hott enought for them to like you any more
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5%

Comments:

Its not even that big uv a deal. Live by the moment. Do you love the person you like? Uknowwwwwwwwww That shud say it notttttt the firstttt nottttt llasssssttttttt t
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
First of all, there probably is some guy out there that likes you, you just don't know it. Second, don't worry about it! Focus on other things. "A watched pot never boils"... Take it easy and don't stress about things that might be wrong with you. You are a wonderful person and some boy will see that down the road, I promise, 100%...I have felt that way too. My friend always seems to have boyfriends and crushes, and i was feeling lonely, like guys never like me. When I told her that, she was shocked, and told me that she thought I was really popular with the guys, and SHE was jealous of ME! There's a chance you're not noticing attention you're getting from guys. But stop worrying about it, either way :)
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
I know how you feel, I was in your spot and I thought why dont my guy friends like me? They say I'm cute but NEVER take me seriously and I would just get so frustrated and all you have to do is just wait for a super sweet guy around the corner, because he will come around..
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
i've been wondering the same thing :( whenever i like a guy they never like me.. i dont know what to tell you because i dont know for myself
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
with your guys friends that you flirt with now you mayb too close with for them to make a move. Try be flirty with guys your not so close with and see how they respond, if they flirt back then keep increasing it and soon enough they will ask you out
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
I like the idea of asking one of the guy friends that you do not like what he thinks is going on. Maybe these guys think you are too good for them, or you intimindate them in some way?!
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
All great romances start as friendship, so you are off to a great start. Once you have a guy as a BFF then try to make the swtich to dating by coming right out and saying something to him. The guy will be super flattered! BradJackson
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
I have an idea but it's just coming off the top of my head and I don't really know if it will help so you be the judge. Talk with one of your guy friends that you are NOT interested in as far as a boyfriend and explain your situation to him. Don't ask "What's wrong with me?" but, instead, ask him, "from your perspective, as my friend, why am I not girlfriend material in the eyes of my guy friends?" He may have some idea or he may feel awkward and avoid the issue. Like I say, I'm just taking a stab, here. If you sense that talking to him will cool your friendship, then don't do it. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
There isnt a problem, someone will eventualy claim your beauty! :D Your extremly lucky, i wish all the time that i'd have more guy friends. So go with the flow, something good will happen soon! :D <3
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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