Who to choose...?

ive been daiting this guy hes super funny and sweet but i dont see myself with him i love him but i just dont think it would work out. and i dont want to dump him, cus his ex gf pained him a lot and i dont want to do the same meanwile, i still love my ex but i think he just wants to be friends...

Final Results

1st.
keep my bf, but stay close friends to my ex
-
75%
2nd.
keep my bf and let go my ex
-
25%
3rd.
dump my bf and just let go my ex
-
0%
4th.
dump my bf and take a chance and go for my ex
-
0%

Comments:

If he's your ex, he's obviously your ex for a reason. It's natural you'll still feel something for an ex. The feelings were there once, they won't disappear overnight, or sometimes after months. But imo, stick with your bf, unless you've lost interest in him. Seeing yourself with him or not isn't the point in a relationship. Making yourself a life with the one you love, no matter what, is. Funny, sweet? Sounds really great to me.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
I'm afraid that you are being selfish. Make a choice. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
The breakup berween me and my ex was a mistake, but I really do love my bf... and I know Im not doing my bf justice, but I really don't want to let him go.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
You have two issues. First your current bf: You are not doing justice to either him or you by leading him on. You need to let him go gently. Second your ex: He is your ex for a reason. Probably a good one. There is no harm in staying friends but don't count on more. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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