What should I do about him?

So I like this guy and have for a while now and the other day he came to my place while my best friend was over and I found out that he kinda liked her. Seriously this is the story of my life, everytime I like someone they end up liking her instead of me. How do I stop this happening again???

Final Results

1st.
Tell her to leave the guys I like alone
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71%
2nd.
Any other ideas?
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21%
3rd.
Stop being friends with her
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7%

Comments:

Agree with VOE.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Does she know that you are interested in the guy? If she does know, does she flirt with him anyway? If she does, she isn't your friend. If she isn't encouraging him and he continues to go for her, then it isn't her fault. If she doesn't know which guys you are interested in, then tell her. Since most boyfriend/girlfriend relationships usually are short term, do you want to give up a friendship for a boyfriend? You stop this from happening by a) being more self confident. Nothing is more attractive than a woman who believes in herself. AND b)don't take guys around your friend, at least not at first. Although she may not be giving any signals, the guys may think she is. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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