Trying to break up with my boyfriend.

I've been unhappy with my boyfriend for a very long time. We've been together for almost 2 years and I just want to get out of it, but I'm not sure how. I'm also cheating on him with my best friend, and I feel much happier with him. I'm not sure how I should break up with my boyfriend.

Final Results

1st.
Don't tell him I'm cheating but still break up
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71%
2nd.
Tell him I'm cheating on him when I break up with him
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24%
3rd.
Don't break up at all... but stay with him
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6%

Comments:

Break up with him, by all means. You are not a loyal girlfriend and he deserves better treatment. He will probably figure out that you've been cheating on him but if you want to spare his feelings, then don't mention it to him. Just get out now. The longer you stay in the relationship, the harder it will be for him. How sad that after 2 years it has to end like this. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
break up with him without telling him ur cheating. just say ur not rele happy in the relationship and that u guys have been in the relationship for 2 yrs and u think its best if u take a break from each other.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Just break up with him without telling him about the cheating. The only purpose to that would be to make him feel really bad and he will be feeling bad enough about the break up. BradJackson
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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