Too much fighting???

My bff and her bf fight all the time. I mean like 5 times a week and they are big ones. Isnt there some point where like it is just too much? I want 2 tell her to dump him and she says she loves him && I believe her. My mum says it is just imatiurity since we are all 17 yrs old.

Final Results

1st.
Stay out for now!
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67%
2nd.
Advisse her to dump him
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33%
3rd.
Wait for them to grow up somemore
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0%

Comments:

This just is not your business and so you need to stay out -- support whatever she does but do not involve yourself. She may end up resenting you! David
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
I don't see how this is your issue, unless the fighting has turning physical. In that case, tell her to get out TODAY! Viktoria
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Tell her to dumo him! Bf/Gf is supposed to be fun and loving and cool, not filled with fights. Life is too short!!
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You need to stay out because she will only end up angry with you if they do not break up. Be there for her when she needs you, but do not make suggestions. Matty
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You should stay out of it unless she comes to you for some help. Maybe they enjoy the fighting and the making up...who knows?? Tiffany
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Just be there to support her and try to keep your opinions to yourself. Even though she uses you as a shoulder to cry on you still dont know what position she is in. She will learn in time if he is the right person for her, and she will learn a lesson. For now you just need to be there and support her as best as you can :)
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Be sympathetic if she wants to talk, but don't advise her. Remember the saying "Anything you say can be used against you". Getting involved with someone else's love life is a good way to lose a friend. Most likely, one of them will get tired of all of the fighting and end things. Let it be their decision and not on your advice. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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