To fight for love or call it quits

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, we live together and we take care of his 2 year old Nephew together. But about a month ago I found out he was talking to and meeting up with this one girl when him and his friends would go out. He says their just friends but I don't believe him.

Final Results

1st.
Break up
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63%
2nd.
Stay together
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37%

Comments:

talk to him and try to get to the bottom of things. ye obviously love each so don't jump b4 ya run
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Talk to him. If you guys have been together for so long then he's probably teling the truth! If he has a history of lying then you should be concerned. If you've never had a problem then I wouldn't be worried!!! Good luck!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Shouldn't this ring a bell?!.... - How come your not invited??.... Man, "eff" an invite.. Your his partner.. His common law wife dude! You should just be able to get in the car with him no questions asked... There is obviously a reason why he does not bring you along. Wake up girl..
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Fighting too much is never a good idea. Why would you want to suffer in a relationship like that? Blah, drama is so overrated. Drop him and move on to a drama free life.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
It doesn't sound like he and this other girl have actually been alone together but it sure seems like it is headed that way. He needs to stop seeing her. Period. Even if there is nothing going on. Why? Because it bothers you and if he cares about you he should care that it bothers you. This is his second chance. If he refuses or if he sees her anyway, then you're outa there. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
after two years? he shouldn't be hiding anything from you. hes not investing as much effort as you are apparently. your'e taking care of his nephew for goodness sake!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
why do you are still with him ???? he's a pig obviously!!! you take care of his nephew and he's taking you by a fool and going out with other girl??? OMFG!!! that's horrible!!! you need to move on quickly before it's too late.. nothing worth your freedom and your happiness.. if he doesn't value all the things you're doing for him, and for make him happy, it's time for move on with your life girl!.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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