This needs to be said to him...But how do I do it?

My friend's girlfriend is psycho. She tore his family apart and gave his sister an ulcer (she had to be home-schooled the rest of the year because of it). It got to the point he moved out. Even after all of this, he is STILL with her! How do I tell him that she's toxic and needs to run far away??

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1st.

A combination of both/suggestions in the comments below.

42%

2nd.

Tell him gently with a lot of 'I'm just concerned for you.'

33%

3rd.

Tell him flat out she's crazy and he needs to leave her.

25%

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Honestly, if all of this has happened, I'm sure his family has already pointed it out to him. He doesn't want to see it. If he wants to ask you for your advice about it, give him your honest opinion, but unless he does that, mind your own business. He probably wouldn't listen if you told him anyways, and that would just put a strain on your relationship, and also she might come after you next.

Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago

I don't think you should say anything directly bad about the girlfriend since this may backfire on you. What you need to dois point out the evidence of what has actually happened because this girl is in his life. Help him to connect the dots on his own and then support him.

Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago

i bet that he allready knowz this. i bet that he is havving a hard time gettingg out of the relitionship. see wat u can do to helpp him to gett out of PSYCHOLAND.

Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

Gently tell him how you feel and what you think about what is going on. Focus on how you are worried about him. Focus on how you want what is best for him. And tell him that you support him no matter what. JD

Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

He has developed an emotional dependency on her and you can't break it by just telling him. Unfortunately, he has to figure it out. Without blaming her, you can point out the hardships that his family is suffering and even point out some of his own difficulties but he has to come to the realization that it is the girlfriend that is the cause. To try to convince him of that will be met with resistance and he will cut off ties with anyone who accuses the gf of anything. It may not be possible to save him. VOE

Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

Tell him flat out that you don't think she's good for him. Unfortunately people in this situation don't usually listen, so all you can do is let them know how you feel and if they choose to ignore you then let it go. At the end of the day its their life

Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

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