The other guy..

Ive been dating my bf for almost 4 years now, through highschool & uni. We moved in together 4 months ago, but now he NEVER leaves the house. This makes me bored.. I met another guy on a photoshoot and he fits all the criteria; fun, hot, active, creative..Do I leave the guy I live with for him?

Final Results

1st.
Dump the boyfriend
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44%
2nd.
Go on a few dates with the new guy to cure curiosity..
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35%
3rd.
Ditch the new guy
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21%

Comments:

dont end the first relationship until youre sure about the second
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
DON'T go on dates with the new guy, that is practically cheating. Talk to your boyfriend about what you are unhappy and bored with, it's the right thing to do. And if things don't change and you truly bored & unhappy. End it.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If u r not hapy in ur reltionship then u shud move on wit ur life and dump the bf who is no fun at all. good luck!!!!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
have u spoke to ur boyfriend about why he never leaves the house?
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
It would be easy to say that you can forgive him easier for cheating on you than for making you bored, but I get it that you've reached your limit with him and it's not just about the boredom. I think you've gone the extra mile with him if he's cheated on you twice and you let it pass. You probably should have ditched him long ago. Four years may seem like a long time but your whole life ahead of you is a lot longer. Leave the bf and go explore the possibilities. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Yeah, you're right, 300 words isnt enough to explain the whole story. He's cheated on me with two of my friends (two and one year ago), so to say I haven't tried when things have gotten tough is a severe understatement.. Anywho, this just feels like the last straw you know. He has no goals or ambitions anymore, i do love him but feel like he might cheat on me again down the road, even though he assures me he wont. Other than that he is great I guess. Hmm..
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Wow, how pathetic are you that you been dating someone for FOUR years and your so quick to move on when you find the relationship getting a little hard. That's definitely not called love; when your ready to ditch your bf of 4 years for a new hot guy. Yes, do your bf a favour and leave him because your clearly over it.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Do not go out with this guy unless you dump ur boyfriend first if your not settled down enough with this guy to stay faithful to him then you need to just leave you will be doing him a favor and he will feel like a fool if it on like this.... Don't domthat to someone... Cause it will turn around and bite you in the ass.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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