Summer Romance

I went on a boat cruise. I met 1 of the most amazing people ever! He was a worker on the boat and he hooked up. I have him on Facebook now&he wants to get off the boat to come&visit me. I really think that we could have something. Only problem is, I think Im pregnant & worried it will scare him off.

Final Results

1st.
Wait until you're sure before you tell him.
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67%
2nd.
Tell him! He needs to take responsibility!
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29%
3rd.
You might not even be pregnant so just calm down!
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0%
4th.
You made the mistake, you need to deal with it. Alone.
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0%

Comments:

oh gosh! if you are pregnant forget about him!! why you would want other man in your life beside your baby's daddy??? and having a "somenthing" with other guy just complicate even more your situation, all you have to be worry about its your "pregnancy" or in the case you aren't be MUCH MORE WISE about your love life, do you wanna be all your life stress about be pregnant??
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
First, confirm the pregnancy. If yes, he needs to know and share the responsibility. If no, then go buy some condoms, then take it from there if you want to pursue him. If you had unprotected sex with him then you did a dumb thing, once. Don't do a dumb thing twice. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Do a pregnancy test in the privacy of your own home prior to determining what to do next. And if you are pregnant, make absolutely sure that he is the father and no one else. Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Do not do anything until you are sure that you are pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test, which will cost you about $9....a small price for peace of mind! Then, once you have the results, you should tell the father. Matty
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Find out first if you are pregnant and then take things from there. Be also sure that he is the father prior to starting any more conversations with him. And if you are not pregnant, then be more careful in the future. Jess
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
First you need to take a pregnancy test. Then you decide if it is in your best interests to see him again. do not rudh into anything and dont tell him you are pregnant until you know for certain and you know the baby is his.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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