stolen

my friend introduced me to a guy she met at a bar, shes only known him for 3 days and says she likes him, he thinks shes to much to soon, and he wants to get to know me, i dont want to hurt my friend, but we really hit it off when we met

Final Results

1st.
stay away
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60%
2nd.
she hardly knows him im doing nothing wrong
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40%

Comments:

Your title STOLEN is a clear indication that you see yourself as someone stealing something from your friend. I'm guessing that she introduced him, not as someone she was trying to fix you up with, but as someone she was interested in and wanted you to meet, probably for your approval. Don't be the thief that your conscience says you would be. Leave him alone. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Have you ever heard of the Girl Code? This means that is she like him first then it is hands off for you!JD
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Talk to the friend about it and get her take on the situation. If she says Go For It and yuo get the sense that she really means it, then anything goes. Good luck! Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You really need to back away from this one, since it is clear that it will really hurt your friend. Tell him 'no thanks' and then encourage your friend to go a bit slower with the relationship. Jess
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Well, SHE introduced you, so if something more happen, i don't really know if she can freak out. But if she says she likes him, you should back down a little, maybe give her a time to forget him, or accept that nothing will happen between them but maybe between you and him.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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