still in love

Im still in love with my ex boyfriend. I swore to myself that this we were really over. but he is sending me mixed signals and it has being really hard to get over him. what should I do? plz comment I need advice.

Final Results

1st.
talk to him
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63%
2nd.
get over him
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38%

Comments:

If you have decided that this time you are really over, then why don't you stick to your decision? What makes the difference what signals he's sending? Just because he may show interest doesn't mean that you have to go along with it. You must have had a good reason for deciding that it's over. Now you seem to be weakening just because he's sending mixed signals. It sounds like this has happened before and you keep taking him back. When have you had enough? VOE
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Just talk to him. Maybe he wants to get back together with you but he is just really nervous that you will reject him. Talk it out and see what you can find out. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
If he doesnt wanna be with you then leave him. guys try really hard with girls that they actually like.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Talk to him about the mixed signals and when you do, try to be very specific with him. For instance...."You say you don't want a relationship but then you don't want me texting other guys".
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
If he is sending you mixed signals then you need to figure out a way to get to the heart of what is going on with him. Have a nice, mature conversation with him. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
You need to break your communication with him, as long as you keep speaking to him you wont ever move on
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
i know exactly how you feel. you should talk to him and try to work things out. believe in what could be :)
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
You need to confront him. But first you must ask yourself do I want to be back with him? What did he do wrong before and can you forgive him for these things? Make your mind up first then talk to him and see if these issues can be resolved or move on.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

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