Stick around or leave

I like haveing a BF rather than not having one. but all my frends are starting to say that my standards are too low jus to have some guy around. But being along is SCAREY. The current bf is just okay, but not a real LOVE. Do I stay or go?!

Final Results

1st.
Go
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100%
2nd.
Stay
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0%
3rd.
?????
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0%

Comments:

Have you ever considered just spending time alone and getting used to the idea? And then, the concept of being without a boyfriend will be much less scary. Patti
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
As long as you and your boyfriend BOTH know and have talked about your relationship not being serious, than that's fine. It's always nice to have a date for the week. But if you are lying to him, you should stop because you're only going to break his heart. Don't get a bad reputation! Just be in it for the nice dates and good conversation and maybe make that your goal. :)
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Being with some guy just to be with some guy is not fair to him and it is not fair to you. Wait for a guy that is a good fit for you and stop being afraid to be alone. Mimi
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Aguy should be something that you add to your life nad not something that you MUST have. Be happy in your own skin before you go out trying to be a girlfriend to some guy. Learn to be alone for a bit. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
You are allowing yourself to be defined by a boyfriend. Being alone is not scary if you have any measure of confidence in yourself. You are using "having a boyfriend" as a crutch, and you really don't need one. Let this one go and don't get in a big hurry to replace him. Take your time, set your standards, and find that guy who will knock your socks off. It's worth the time and the trouble. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
Why not try to spend some time on your own for awahile?! I would prefer that to spending time with some guy that I am not really into and it is not fair to him either. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

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