SNEAK OUT NEED HELP!! FASST

i want to go to this party, but i know my parents won't allow me to go because they don't know who the person is, i know who it is and it is totally safe, and everyones going i need to go! HELP ME! HOW CAN I CONVINCE THEM???? i'll do anything, im desperate ! im a good girl, they need to trust me

Final Results

1st.
tell them EVERYthing & only stay for a few hours
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44%
2nd.
COMMMENT COMMENT COMMENT PLEASE
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33%
3rd.
tell them even though they will say no
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22%
4th.
LIE LIE, and sneak there and get back before they notice
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0%

Comments:

The 4th one is the best. Noone said LIE so that is good. You will ruin any trust your parennts have in you if you startt to lie to them.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
No lying - for real this is such a bad idea. Your parents will never trust you again and then you will never be allowed to do anything in the future.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Do not do the immature thing and lie or sneak out. That is no way to conduct yourself. Talk to your parents like a grown person and see what they have to say and then see what can be done.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
At least give your parents a chance in this case. You need to talk to them -- and you do not know for sure that they will say no. Be mature and talk this out. Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Have you ever considered just a normal and mature conversation with your parents? Try to find out what their objections are and then specifically address them in a grown up tone. David
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You can't go wrong with honesty and your parents will probably be agreeable if you come to a real meeting of the minds. Jess
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
if you want them to trust you there is no point in lying and sneaking out, chances are you will be caught and you'll never be allowed to go to a party again. well for a good few months anyway. just tell them the truth, come to a compromise. let them set a curfew, tell them who of your close friends (that they know) are going etc.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Try to start off with honesty. Tell them what you want to do and why. Offer to give them the address and phone number. Agree to only stay for two hours. I am sure that you can come to a reasonable agreement with your parents. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You have a big problem! If you want your parents to trust you, and you should because it will pay off in a big way in the future, then you can't do anything that is deceitful. You say that you will "do anything" which tells me that you hold this one single party as higher importance than years of trust. The answer is to tell them and to provide as much information as to who all will be there and what parents will be supervising, as you can. Give phone numbers of the other parents so that yours can call and verify. Be as open and honest about the who, what and where as you can be and be sure to let them know how and why this party is so important to you. If you want trust, you have to be truthful.
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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