Should I stay out of it?

My friends is 19 years old and she doesn't like to eat and doesn't like to cook. She has me for a friend, but doesn't have many friends. She works 2 jobs and is very sensitive!! One wrong word and she is in tears!! What should I do?

Final Results

1st.
Try to talk it through with her
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48%
2nd.
Speak to her to see a councilor
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35%
3rd.
Don't mention it and let her work it through herself
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17%
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She clearly has something deeper going on. Professional help would be good for her.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
i think a counselor may be what she needs..and so what if she resents you, she'll get over it!..you may be able to help somewhat, but maybe she doesn't want to open up to you, and you have to accept that..i'd find a counselor for her, and leave the number in her purse or s/t, if she's that sensitive and hopefully she'll get the hint and call ..or u call and make her go w/ you, in the long run, she'll thank you for helping her
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
she is your friend you have to support her. dont force her to see a counsellor or she will resent you for it. maybe something has happened to make her so emotional. just slowly work on finding out what the problem is and be there for her. its the best you can do
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
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