Non-existent Love Life

I've just turned 20 and my love life is non-existent. My biggest problem is that I'm unwilling to lower myself to that of a damsel in distress/doe-eyed girl fawning over some guy, which seems to be the role most of my friends adopt. And yet I don't believe in chasing guys. What should I do???

Final Results

1st.
Stop over-reacting
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61%
2nd.
Take severe action, and put myself out there.
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39%

Comments:

You'll be fine, and don't worry about putting on an act or persona to attract the right person. Just live your life and have fun, and someone compatible will notice you :)
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
playing hard to get always draws a guys attention... but sometimes it can backfire ... thats called playing "invisible" Be confident... but not too confident... be yourself dont pretend to be something you're not.. otherwise you'll never find out who's in love with the real you
Added by mrs_trinh - almost 2 years ago
You don't have to be damsel in distress and chase a guy. Guys like girls who are confident and comfortable to just be themselves, be yourself and the guy who likes you will like you for the person you are, not for the chase.
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago
haha you'll be right. youre 20 youre still very young If you want a guy you want one who likes you for not being doe-eyed and fawning over him. amiritee?
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago

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