nice or not nice?

whenever I am too nice to my bf, he takes it for granted and when I become a bit bitchy, he becomes nicer. I want to be nice but I want him to appreciate it at the same time. What should I do? I did try to confront him and he said he does appreciate it..but don't seem like it

Final Results

1st.
be cold for couple days and make him miss me.
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50%
2nd.
Just be a bitch and be nice in a while
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29%
3rd.
this is a fail. I should find a new boyfriend.
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14%
4th.
just ignore it and be nice
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7%

Comments:

i dont know what to tell you... maybe tell him not to take you for granted or you will leave, maybe then he wont take you for granted.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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