my bf wants to have sex with me but i feel i'm too young

he keeps urging me but i don't want to have sex until i'm 17

Final Results

1st.
don't give in
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78%
2nd.
give in and make him happy
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23%

Comments:

Don't let him and be true to yourself. If you do it to please him you will feel bad. Do it when you feel ready. If he keeps pressuring you dump him.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Don't have sex with him until you are ready. Wait until you love someone to have sex with them. If he really loved you, he would respect the choice you make and stay with you, if he gets angry, get rid of him. HE isn;t worth it.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Don't Give In.. If He Loves You He Will Wait No Matter How Long It Takes Untill Your Ready. Say It Straight Too His Face If You Love Me You'll Wait Untill I'm Ready I Really Wish I Could've But I Was Young And Stupid At Least You've Got The Chance Too Hold Onto Something You Will Never Get Back.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
I gave in not because of him but peer pressure and ive regret it ever since, once you lose it thats it!! , and sex is addictive you will wont more n more, so i say wait until your at least 17 or 18 thats when you will know for sure. Plus no-one likes a whore.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
If you don't, he'll just assume you're frigid, and move on to somebody more mature.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
To be honest, sex isn't something that should be planned... its something that the moment to bring with it. Sex is something very big... And your virginity is something you can never get back once lost... so wouldn't you rather share it at the perfect moment when both of you are comfortable?
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
He's thinking with his "other head", don't have sex because he wants to. Have sex when you feel it's the right thing. If he can't understand that, then he's not worth it.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Don't have sex until you feel that you are completely ready. Tell him and he should understand. If he doesn't, then maybe he's not the guy you know him as or want to be with. Without your consent, it's rape.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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