My bf cheated on me!

I just found out over the weekend that my bf of 2 years cheated on me. He hasn't come out and told me but I found out from one of his best mates. I do love him but I'm so angry right now and now sure what to do

Final Results

1st.

Confront him and then break up with him

51%

2nd.

Confront him and try to work to stay together with him

33%

3rd.

Just break up and say nothing since he hasn't told me

16%

Comments:

Dmp him and then kick him in the balls

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

Wait.... what kind of cheating? Maybe he just was drunk and someone kissed him, or maybe he full out has been sleeping with someone else. Cheating is a big term that captures a lot of behavior and means different things to different people. You have to talk to him about it and find out all the information to make the best decision -- but don't let him engage in behavior that puts your happiness and *health* at risk, and always make a decision your proud of and feel like you'd be proud of in another 2 years.

Added by WhitJones66 - almost 2 years ago

Well, I have two suggestions. 1- Avoid him for a while and wait for him to confront you and ask you whats wrong and then tell him about it. 2- Go up to him and in a sweet voice ask him if he would ever cheat on you. If he says no maybe he actually didn't cheat on you, but if you know for a fact he did tell him that he's lying to you.

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

I've been in your shoes..and im still with my guy. but in my case, he told me. in your situation i would say confront him first and see what he says. if his words are worth the forgiveness then you can decide for your own whether to stick with him. but if he's not even trying to get you to forgive him or if he's not a single bit apologetic, then definitely break it off. im the easy-going type..so i gave my guy an easy way out (unlike most girls). it also depends how much affection you feel towards him in the first place

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

If you really love him try and work things out. bad thing is he hasnt told you yet, is he waiting for the right time or does he just not are about you at all? How do you know this is the first time?

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

The fact that u believe he cheated in the first place shows that there is very little trust in your relationship...whether u break up with him or decide to stick together u'l always have doubt about him..its a matter of how long u can live with questioning his every move

Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

why would u need to ask other people what to do... i mean come on... a guy cheats on u...first time give him a chance if u really love him then fuck him up... don't need no one to tell me what to do so why would u???