Love my boyfriend cant stand his 7 year old brat!

My b/f is the love of my life. He has a 7 yr old daughter with his ex-wife and she stays with us on weekends. She drives me crazy! She's spoilt, bad-mannered and rude. I feel like I have tried to get close to her but she pushes me away. My b/f just ignores her bad behaviour.

Final Results

1st.
insist that b/f gets firmer with her
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61%
2nd.
try harder with her and hope things get better
-
31%
3rd.
if he wont be strict with her, then i should
-
8%

Comments:

Be straight up and tell him, result may be unexpected but speaking from experience you dont want to be stuck heartbroken and feeling you have no say in anything.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
you should talk to him about it... tell him you want to get close to her but you're scared that she hates you and you dont know what to do.. he might suggest something.
Added by mrs_trinh - almost 2 years ago
Everyone has baggage, some more than others. What's more important, you're love for him, or you're dislike for his child. Make a choice and stick to it!
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
Never be more strict than him shell always remember you as the girlfriend who acted like her mother ha go ask him for help in the middle of a situation where she's misbehaving and also alot of kids are really cruel or bratty until they get much older. it
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago
This is hard, because coming right down to it, he will always choose her over you. Just be gentle, maybe bring it up subtly that he should be a little firmer, that she shouldnt behave like that, etc.
Added by Anonymous - about 2 years ago

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