im really shy and so is he and we havent done much... :$

Me and my boyfriend and both really shy. We've been together for about a month now, and i want things to speed up a bit, like we haven't even made out yet, and i don't want to be the one to make the first move, what should i do!

Final Results

1st.

hint to him

78%

2nd.

ask 1 of his friends to hint to him that i want to go faster

13%

3rd.

any suggestions?!?!

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probably gay

Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

i'd say go for it, too..it's fun and he'll love your boldness...but if you don't want to, hint, pop some gum in your mouth, offer him some, lick your lips, etc...cuddle w/ him even, but he may just be waiting for you to kiss him!

Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

just go for it. makin the first move shows confidence and that says alot. and he is probably waiting 4 u to make the 1st move neway :)

Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

Check his porn collection. He might be gay.

Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

just push the kiss to go longer each time...

Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

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