Husband keeps threatening divorce

We've only been married two years, but when times get tough he goes straight to divorce talk. I don't think that's an option for me at all. However, he's seem to just want to give up. A few times I've moved out with our daughter, then within weeks we're back together and cycle repeats. Do I?

Final Results

1st.
Go to mariage councelling
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63%
2nd.
Give it some time, if doesn't improve maybe should divorce
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34%
3rd.
Work through it, divorce isn't an option
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3%

Comments:

talk to him and if he starts yelling and stuff just agree to whatever then start talkting to him again calmly
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
I suspect that he wants out and he goes to "divorce talk" hoping that you've reached your threshold and will say OK. If this is the case, it will surface in counseling. If he is being immature, that, too will surface. Give counseling a try.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
give counselling a go, if he is constantly threatening divorce, maybe he is too immature for marriage anyway!! but try what you can. Don't let your daughter be constantly involve in the incident though or she will end up believing that its the right way a marriage should be.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
He was probobly not taught that marriage isn't disposable. Sometimes they tend to push back, or run away when they feel threatened, even if by 'bad times' and if you keep leaving, you are enabling him to keep up this behavior. You need to show him you won't run either, that you are a team. Show your daughter this, not that running is the answer. go to counseling, possibly family counsiling.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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