should i wait around?

my ex boyfriend and i dated for a little over a month and a couple days ago he broke up with me because he 'rushed into a relationship' i really miss him and i want him back. i'm so heartbroken. we still text, but only as 'friends' is there anything i can do to change his mind?

Final Results

1st.
act like you don't care & he'll come back
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38%
2nd.
keep talking to him show him what he first fell in love with
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38%
3rd.
forget it. he's done with you
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13%
4th.
any other tips?
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13%

Comments:

Do not pursue this too dilligently or you will risk alienating him and ruining any chance for a future relationship. Keep it casual, keep it friendly and he will crawl back!David
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Try to talk to him and sort this out. Don't be too quick to jump to any conclusions, since that is not helpful. At least be a conversation going at this point. DeeDee
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
You can't MAKE someone like you and if you try, you appear weak and desperate. After a month he decided that he wasn't really into it and he broke up. That's better than stringing you along. His action is actually a form of honesty. As weird as it seems, you should really appreciate that. Just because he broke up with you is no reason to feel devastated or desperate. It's no reflection on you personally. He just felt like you and he weren't compatible and he honestly ended it. Forget him and move on. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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