should i wait around?

my ex boyfriend and i dated for a little over a month and a couple days ago he broke up with me because he 'rushed into a relationship' i really miss him and i want him back. i'm so heartbroken. we still text, but only as 'friends' is there anything i can

Final Results

1st.
act like you don't care & he'll come back
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38%
2nd.
keep talking to him show him what he first fell in love with
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38%
3rd.
forget it. he's done with you
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13%
4th.
any other tips?
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13%

Comments:

Do not pursue this too dilligently or you will risk alienating him and ruining any chance for a future relationship. Keep it casual, keep it friendly and he will crawl back!David
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Try to talk to him and sort this out. Don't be too quick to jump to any conclusions, since that is not helpful. At least be a conversation going at this point. DeeDee
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
You can't MAKE someone like you and if you try, you appear weak and desperate. After a month he decided that he wasn't really into it and he broke up. That's better than stringing you along. His action is actually a form of honesty. As weird as it seems,
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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