Should i tell my step mom that my dad is cheating on her?

My parent's are divorced for about 5 years now and my dad just married his gf for 2 years on feb 16, the problem is that i caught him making out with another girl and i don't know what to do. and if it wasnt horrible enough already a week ago she told me she knows that i will never lie to her.

Final Results

1st.
Tell Her
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44%
2nd.
Tell my dad to stop
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38%
3rd.
Don't Tell Her
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9%
4th.
Ignore the situation altogether.
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9%

Comments:

Mind your own business. If everyone did that what a wonderful world this would be. Cheaters always get caught. As for your Dad, what a loser. Bad example he is setting for you. You might want to say something to him, but mind your own business otherwise. Everyone needs to mind their own business about most things.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
hey u the comment underneath me… U ARE DUMB COCK SUCKING BITCH!! U ARE REALLY DUMB !! of course she has to tell her bcuz thats the rite thing to do
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Trust me its not right if you let it go and dont say anything!!!. cause if your husband was cheating on you would you want somone to tell you or just let it go???
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
I agree with the comment to talk to your dad. Tell him what you witnessed. That's as far as you go with this. If anyone tells his wife, it should be him and that is his decision. My best advice is to not tell but if you're ever asked, don't lie, either. Don't get in the middle of this because it could get real messy. I feel for you. It must have been quite a shock. I am impressed that you have given this a lot of thought and not just given a knee-jerk reaction. You are mature beyond your years. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
You need to stay out of their relationship even though that is going to be very hard. But maybe you can talk to your stepmom and tell her that you know everything. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
you need to be truthful so go to your dad first he has been unfaithful and it is unaceptable.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
talk to your dad about it !
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
It's not really your position to get involved in their relationship. So I don't think you should tell her, however if you did want to do something you could tell your Dad to stop it
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Dont rat out on your dad. He's youre flesh and blood. Tell him you saw and that he needs to talk to your step mum, make him feel bad so he'll admit it
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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