Should I Stay or Should I Go Now?

I've been dating a guy for almost a year and I lost interest about 2 months ago, I was in love with him and I still have feelings for him, but he's older than me and very immature. He's socially awkward and is holding me down from a lot. I want to go to college but he's content with part time jobs.

Final Results

1st.
Break up with him and try to be friends?
-
71%
2nd.
Stick with it until I go away for school?
-
29%

Comments:

Thanks for sharing. What a pelusare to read!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you've lost interest and you feel he's holding you back then maybe its time to move on. If you're hearts no longer in the relationship you're wasting each other time, you both need to be happy and it definitely sounds like you aren't so it's time to change
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
trying to be friends might not work, so dont get your hopes up, but try it. if hes still into you and you arent into him, he will likely always want more and never be okay with just being friends. dont settle, like if too short!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you have lost interest in this guy, then you are cheating both him and you out of fulfilling relationships. From your post, it doesn't sound like he's a jerk, just that the two of you have more differences than similarities. This is a perfectly good reason to end it, hopefully on a friendly basis. Whether you are a guy or a girl, you should never let someone you're going with dictate your future. This will only lead to resentment. Go on to college and chase your dreams. You may only get one chance. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
as possible because we only live once. And now i see that my comment has taken 3 comment pages, so ill leave it like that and say. MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE. and pick what YOU want... Not what HE wants. be strong.. Hope this helped..
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I really hope my comment helped.and i hope you make the right choice. My best wishes to you and your future family... weather it is with this guy or another. i hope all goes well and you become wel educated. please dont let down todays societey, people these days keep thinking that education is a joke or it isent important but the truth is, its very important. VERY IMPORTANT! Education determines your job, your salary, and then ur kids and happiness... its normal to want to get out of school as soon as possible but you need to think things through and say to yourself.. is another year or two worth having a better job? a better salary? and in the future a happier family? i think it is.. If you dont then i think you need to rearange your priorities.. people need to get as many expeiriences
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Is he worth missing life oppertuneties? if he really cared about you, he would let you go to college and be happy that you are happy. I dont think he really loves you if hes willing to mess up ur oppertuneties. dont let him interfere with your life anymore because if u guys dont work out and u didnt go to college, ur the one that will suffer the concequences. not him. My advice is to go to school. To dump the bestard, sorry for my language, and forget about him. he wasnt worth ur time. Especialy if u dont even feel for him anymore. Take this very seriously, part time jobs are no way of living this is clearly from expeirience and i defenetly dont want u to go on the same road as i did, I wouldnt wish it on anyone.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

Add Comment:

Tagged under:
Add Dilemma

Most Popular Dilemmas

View All...
- 5 days 8 hours left
- 4 days 6 hours left
- 15 hours 23 minutes left
- 456 days 14 hours left
- 1 day 15 hours left
Woman drinking coffee on laptop
Dcyder is a service for when you're stuck and not sure what to do. You simply add your dilemma to Dcyder and the web community vote and add comments to help you decide...

Keep up with Dcyder

Expiring Dilemmas...

- 15 hours 23 minutes left
- 1 day 15 hours left
- 2 days 8 hours left

Recently Expired Dilemmas...

Ended on May 21st, 2012
Ended on May 21st, 2012
Ended on May 20th, 2012

My Dilemmas

You have not yet submitted a dilemma!
Click here to add one.