Should I stay or should I go?

I met this guy a few weeks ago and we get on really well, however I'm leaving the country in a month and wont be back for quite a while. Should I go for it with him and risk my gap year, or continue with my original plans and stay friends?

Final Results

1st.
Play it safe.
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71%
2nd.
You can do iiiiiiiit!!
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29%

Comments:

Move on. Itll never work. So dont waste your time and find a new person in your new country.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Nahh, it will just be too hard and it is not fair to either one of you. Maybe you can find someone more geographically desirable at the new country! Brandon
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Move on. Long distance is one thing ...different countries is just about an impossibility! Find a nice local guy in your new country. Hillary
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
You have not invested much time in this guy and other guys will come along in th enew country. It is not like you are going to the next town over! I say move on. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
You only know him for a few weeks, you probably didn't plan your future in a few weeks. It took much more time. So, do you think you're ready to get in this adventure? Do you think he'd do the same for you?? I don't know...I would keep my plans. You can still keep in touch with him by social networks and things like that. Do you know him so well to say he worths a YEAR of your life? Think about it *
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
How are you risking anything by starting something with this guy even though you are leaving the country for a while? If it works out, great, if it doesn't, what have you lost compared to not starting up with him? Be brave. Give it a shot. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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