Should I do what my bf wants or follow what i think

I love my bf.But everytime we get in a fight he wants to breakup then threatens to commit suicide.He blames me for all his problems.We want to get married as soon as I get out of college.I want to wait and have sex after we're maried.He wants it now.He says our realtionship will improve with it

Final Results

1st.
Leave him he souldnt be pressuring me into it
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50%
2nd.
Stay with him but dont have sex the relationship can b fixed
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30%
3rd.
Stay with him and have sex hes right relationship will b btr
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10%
4th.
Stay with him have sex if doesnt work stop
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10%

Comments:

Leave and don't look back. He sounds like a really mean guy and is definately no good for you. And once you leave, stay gone and don't go back to him. BBR
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
A relationship can not be based around sex. If he doesn't understand that you want to wait,then he's a dick and won't ever put you first. And if he says he'll kill himself, he's guilting you into saying with him. Most likely, if you do breakup,he won'tkill himself and he'll just find another girl that will give him ass. You should put yourself first and follow what you believe,not what this guy wants
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Sex won't improve a relationship especially if there are problems in the relationship. It definitely worries me that he threatens to commit suicide, at the same time I hope you are not staying with him just so he doesn't. At the end of the day you should stay with him if he makes you happy but don't feel pressured into having sex with him, have sex with him when you're ready
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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