should i do it?

I'm 15. I've been on & off with my boyfriend for a year now & right now we've been dating for almost 2 months. He asked me to have sex with him. I want to try it, but my friends said it should be with someone else cause my boyfriend's a player. I want to do it, idk if i want to do it with him

Final Results

1st.
don't do it until you're older
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64%
2nd.
wait to do it with someone else
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25%
3rd.
do it with him. who cares about your friends
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11%

Comments:

if it is something that you want to do and are comfortably doing it, even if he is a player then do it. But if it isn't what you want to do then dont do it. Do what makes you comfortable and if he cant accept hte fact that your not ready to do it with him, im sure he will understand but if he doesn't then he's not the guy for you. Make the right choice for you because you dont want to end up living in regret. :)
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Wait until your older, unless you likebeing used,
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
if ur bf is a playa then not only shud u not have sexx wit him but u shud not be wit him at all. go find a nice devotted guy who is anythingg but a playa.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
If there is any piece of you at all that thinks that this is the wrong thing to do, then do not do it. You can never take it back once it is done & you do not want to live with regret. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
if u want 2 do it then do it. dont let ur friend tell u wat 3 do. its ur decision. if u r hesitating tho that means ur not ready. do it when u feel ready and comforable enough 2 do it
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
You don't really need to listen to your friends but you do need to listen to yourself -- while considering what they are saying. Maybe they see something that you do not yet say....and if there is any hesitation, then the time is not right. JD
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
There are three basic reasons to have sex the first time. One is to see what it's like, to learn the mechanics of it, and to experience something new and different. Another reason is the mistaken belief that if you have sex then you can save or establish the relationship. And the third reason is because you have become so much in love with the other person that you want to share the most personal part of you with that person. You are considering having sex for the first time. You need to be honest with yourself as to the real reason that you want to do this. How do you want to remember the First Time? VOE
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Do wat ur heart tell u <3
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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