Should I be a 'teen' or save for marriage?

I am 21 and engaged. I love my fiance so much that's the problem I wanna take a year to travel etc but I can't. we need money to get our house and pay for the wedding. I want to be married to him so much and do all my travelling etc in my 40s but recently I'm feeling like I'm missing out.

Final Results

1st.
Take a year off...you only live once.
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62%
2nd.
Save for the wedding and my future.
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38%

Comments:

Live your life while you are still aloud to be selfish! As soon as you have a family you cannot do that anymore! Travel with your fiance and grow together.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You haven't missed out on anything. You aren't dead, yet. I'm concerned that you want to put travel ahead of your marriage and for that reason I suggest calling off the wedding. You're just not that committed. You are thinking "me" instead of "us". Better to call it off than to divorce later and with that attitude, I guarantee that you will divorce. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
believe that you can do both at once
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Travel. Stay engaged a while longer. There's no harm in that. & If you absolutely want to be married go to a courthouse! And in a few years have the wedding you always wanted. Life is too short to dwell on materialistic things. Marriage is nothing more than a piece of paper and rings. What is the most significant is your love and devotion for one another.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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