Sex with Fifteen

I just had sex with my ... now exbf :P and i am 15 in 1month 16 years old girl now..should i tell it my mom that i had sex or not ?

Final Results

1st.
Tell it her
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53%
2nd.
Shut up and wait 'till you are older
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47%

Comments:

tell her. we all think that our mom is just our mom. but they r supposed to be our closest best friends. our moms will be the only ones that will actually be there for us when we need them. can u tell one of ur other best friends about this without them reacting in a bad way... prob not. ur mom will react in a bad way but thats only cuz she loves you. i dont tell my mom everything and does it hurt... yes. just tell her and you will see that its worth it in the end.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
your a teenager you think your mum is just your mum trust me YOUR MOTHER IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!!! learn from my mistake
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
tell her!! sex is a serious act. you need to go to the doctors and get on birth control. hopefull you were protected during your first time. you also need to get tested by the doctor to make sure you have a clean bill of health. its best to let your mom in on whats going on so she can help you stay safe and healthy. she may be mad at first but she'll zsppreciate you telling her and she'll be happy to help i'm sure. good luck hun <3
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You need birth control. In fact, you needed it the first time. If that means telling your mom, then do it. She will be less upset with you having sex than she will be if you get preggers. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
no dont tell her, she might react badly...its a private thing, you wont gain anything as long as your safe keep it to yourself...
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Tell her, she'd want to know. And maybe she can help you get some birth control.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
no she doesnt need to know sex is a private thing wat will you gain from you telling her? keep it to yourself, i just hoped you used protection.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
So you've already had sex... chances are you will again. You need to talk to someone. If not your mom then your doctor. Since you've decided to have sex you need to be responsible and realize there is always the possibility of getting pregnant. You're 15/16... you are a kid and are definitely not prepared to take care of a kid. Think about it...I'm 20 & when I was 15 sex was the last thing on my mind. Enjoy your youth while you still can. Sex will sill be on and poppin when your 18 and older.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
you need to learn how to talk....
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You need to trll her so that she can get you checked out and you can get on some birth control as well. It is best to be honest. Mychelle
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
I'm with E1. It could happen again. You may not think so, but you probably didn't plan to the first time. But planning is a big deal. Take care of that first.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
I think that it would be better if you told your mom, just because of the issue with birth control and protection. --El
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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