Sex problem

BOttom line - I want sex like every day or even twice a day - I am a female - And my husband wants it only a few times a month - Which is not fair - He is 11 yrs older then mee and he sayz that is the reason, but still not fair.

Final Results

1st.
Sex coiunseling
-
73%
2nd.
Tell him to go get blue pills
-
18%
3rd.
Have a lover on the side
-
9%

Comments:

having a lover on the side should not even be an option. cheating isnt okay no matter what the reason, especially in a marriage, so throw that idea away or get a divorce. i would talk to him about and try to make a compromise. if he ignores you then see a therapist. if he refuses to go he doesnt care about the health of your marriage.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
It's like you're on a msioisn to save me time and money!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I have the same probelem except I am 14 nad have no boyfriend so I just masurbate and watch porn (yes I am a girl) but go to pronhub.com and watch the "female friendly" stuff (under categories)
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I think that a reasonable rate that would be okay for the both of you is 3 times per week. Make it a regular schedule and that way you can both look forward to those moments. Troy
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I sort of think that twice per day is unreasonable and, dependent on your age, once a day may not be realistic either. The key to this is coming to an agreement that you can both live with. And a lover on the side is a very bad idea. Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I have the same issue as you- I'm a married female who is interested in having sex a lot more than my husband. We've talked about it & settled on having sex a couple of times a week (we don't schedule it, but if it's becoming an issue to make time I would). If I feel like it's been a really long time, I will ask him for it directly, but I don't do that too often. Once or twice a week should be a happy(ish) compromise for both of you.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Fair??? This is something that men have complained about for centuries. When it's the guy who wants sex more than the woman, she says it's not fair to her to have to put out when she isn't in the mood. When she wants it more than him, she still says it's not fair to her because he isn't meeting her needs. What's fair is what you can agree on. Your demand is not reasonable nor is his intermittent interest in sex. You need to find some middle ground. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Why not just talk this out and come to an agreement. Twice a day is a bit unreasonable, but maybe 3 times a week is workable for the two of you. JD
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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