sex?

My boyfriend and I love eachother but we always seem to be fighting about something stupid.He says we sould just have sex because it will help us bond better & keep us from fighting. He says that if we just had sex he wouldnt get upset about the small things like he always does.Should we have sex?

Final Results

1st.
no
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76%
2nd.
yes
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24%

Comments:

how can sex resolve issues? :-S
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
-mkm
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
My Xbf tried to do this to me too! its not gonna end well for you... if he really "loves" you he will understand! it is up to you and the fact that you ask strangers must mean you are not comfortable having sex with him for the reasons he is giving you...YOU SHOULD MAKE A LIST OF REASONS TO HAVE SEX & THINGS LIKE THAT BEFORE DOING IT!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
nooooo! dont do it... wait till you know with a doubt you are ready! -mkm
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
You're boyfriend is a dumb shit. Sex doesn't "fix" things. And you should only do it when you want to. If you believe him, you're a dumbass too.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Go for anal, excellent bonding experience
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
No baby girl I can tell you and I think anyone can twill you that sex just complicates things if so ethnic goes wrong it will make it even harder to leave or break up and it also messes with trust.. It's not a good idea you should wait
Added by AmberBurlison92 - about 1 year ago
In a different situation my boyfreind has definatly got me into bed to get me to shut ypo and stop fighting with him but afterwards you just endup feeling like the fool and are even more mad. If you haven't done anything with him yet make sure its out of the heat of the moment not as a resolution
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I don't mean to be a bitch, but that's a sign he's using you... It's happened to me. I was seeing a boy for 3 months and I wanted a relationship, we never did anything past kiss and he said to me that he doesn't want to be with me cause we haven't really done anything and stupid as I am I did have sex with him. Found out he was sleeping with his ex the whole time and he never talked to me again.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
he is full of it. sex is awesome, i love it dont get me wrong and it can bring you closer together but it is not going to make you stop fighting.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Sure, try to have sex. Maybe it will fix everything. Maybe not. But you should at least see where the relationship goes from there if you do!!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
have sexx only becuz u r in love and not for any other reason. sex would never stop fighting n might even make new problems 4 the 2 of u.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
This is really not a good reason to have sex. In fact, it will probably actually cause more problems in the relationship. Misty
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I appreciate his creativity but I don't see how having sex will fix the fighting you guys keep having. You should have sex if you want to have sex with him not to try and fix something
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Your boyfriend is trying to manipulate you into having sex. He may even be starting fights to prove his point. Don't be conned. Sex is not a cure-all. His reasoning is all wrong. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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