serious guy drama

i recently moved in with my friend and her mother i also became friends with one of their friends and well fell in love with him completely head over heels tho he has a girlfriend and he keeps mentioning that he would love to be in a relationship just not with his girlfriend I'm so confused...help.

Final Results

1st.
tell him to stay with his gf and painfully admire from afar.
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63%
2nd.
help him break up with his girlfriend and be with me.
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38%

Comments:

honestly he needs to make this decision on his own but dont let that stop you from tellin him and showin him how u feel.. dont not do anything and regret it cos it sounds like he has a thing 4 u too.. and you dont wanna risk leavin it long enough that he knocks his gf up and cant leave her.. cos trust me that sucks... really sucks...
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
How old is this guy, 8? Why do you have to do anything? If he wants to break it off with his current gf, then he will. If he doesn't, then you need to move on. It's not for you to "help" him do or not do. If you get involved and then he has second thoughts, you become the villain. Just back off and let him decide. VOE
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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