Seducing

DONT BE SO HORNY BITCH

You need to talk to him about your feelings. Maybe he is feeling stressed. Maybe the kids are getting to him. Maybe he lacks confidence. Let him know you love him and want this to be better. Tiffany

He may be bored in the bedroom. Try asking him if there is anything that you can do to spice up things in the bedroom. Try role-playing and different positions. If this doesn't work try and make an appointment with a sex therapist, sometimes they do know best. Good luck!

If you've been married for 9 years you surely can have a one on one talk about this. And I don't mean starting off with "You don't love me any more". It's a difficult subject to get started but maybe start with "Have you noticed that our sex life isn't what it used to be?" Keep it "we" and "our" and not "you" or "me". Make it "our" dilemma to resolve. You and he are a team, not opponents so approach this like a team. Suggest that you both need physical checkups. Ask him questions but also give him your thoughts. Having kids, supporting a family, maintaining a job are all stressful and can have a wilting (if you will) affect on a person's sex drive. Just remember to keep the love in your talk. No crying, no threats, no accusations, and no anger. Fix the problem, don't place blame. VOE

You should try new things in the bedroom. Get toys or games to seduce him and perhaps play out a fantasy character. If this fails seek help from a therapist.