Relationship advice required for recovering alcoholic

I've been clean and sober for more than a year now, but I've recently met a gorgeous guy who happens to be quite a heavy drinker. I'm really into this guy but I am afraid that I might be tempted to start drinking again if I continue my relationship with him. What do I do

Final Results

1st.
tell him the truth and ask him not to drink around me
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55%
2nd.
keep seeing him and keep going to AA
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20%
3rd.
break up with him
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18%
4th.
keep seeing him and hope for the best
-
8%

Comments:

your health should always come first before anyone or anything. Talk to him about it tell him he might understand if not then its not worth it
Added by mrs_trinh - over 2 years ago
You HAVE to look after yourself. You don't want to go back down a dangerous path. If this guy is potentially toxic for you then he's not good for you. If you need him to change and he won't then he's not the right guy for you at the moment. You will have
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago
Why would he be more likely to drink if you're in a relationship with him? You should set an example.
Added by Anonymous - over 2 years ago

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