Racist Parents

I am 22 years old and my bf is 25 years old. I am white and he is 1/2 black. We have been together for almost two years && my parents have never learned to love him or even like him. They always adored my other bfs who were always white so I think it is a racism thing. What do I say to them?

Final Results

1st.
"Why don't you like Jeremy?"
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47%
2nd.
"Do you not like him cuz heis part black?"
-
40%
3rd.
"How do I make you like my bf??"
-
13%
4th.
***tell me????***
-
0%

Comments:

Love who you wanna love, just tell your perants that if you cant execpt him then you'll have to deal with it. because you can be with who ever you want.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
tell them to stop being such rasist bitches!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
skrew ur parents.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You're jumping to conclusions but you know your parents so you should know if they are bigoted or racist. Even though you are 22, I understand that you want them to like and accept your boyfriend. That makes sense. It also makes sense to have a frank discussion about their objections. Love is sometimes blind and you may be overlooking some serious character flaws that have your parents concerned. Ultimately, the decision as to who you date is yours but it doesn't hurt to talk with your parents to get their take. If their objection is race based, then you have your work cut out for you to convince them that your guy loves you, respects you, and cares for you which is what is important and what your parents should want for you. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You need to find out the reason first, so just ask them why. If that is the reason its very sad and you should try and change their views. If you can't change their views then you'll just have to ignore them
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Just ask them straight out why they do not like him. Maybe there is a really good reason that has nothing at all to do with his race. Scotty
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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