over or not over him?

This guy and I talked this summer but we broke it off bcuz we never saw each other he sees me at school the 1st day and we talk &he tells me how pretty I am but he has a gf. duh hes off limits but he still talks to me a lot and idk what we are? he flirts me with alot or talks bad about this gf to me

Final Results

1st.
ignore him
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53%
2nd.
tell him straight up my feelings and maybe he feels the same
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47%

Comments:

Tell him how you feel but then tell him that you plan to back off right away. Then he will know about how you feel and can make his own decision about his life. Devin
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
Ignore the jerk and you might even wanna tell the gf about his behaviour since it is not fare for her 2 think that he is relly devoted 2 her.
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
Tell him how you feel but aknowledge that he has a gf >>>>>>like this>>>> "I know you have a girlfriend but I think you have a right to know that I really like you as more than just a friend".
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
He is off limits but I don't see why you need to ignore him. You can still be friendly and still talk occasionally. But that is it, at this point in time. Just friends! Vicki
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
Come right out and tell him your feelings but also let him know that he does not need to act on them, only that he has a right to know. Who knows -- maybe he is really not that into his gf! Lynda
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
What you are are friends. Nothing more. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
You know the rules -- if he has a gf then he is off limits! But stay friends because his status could change and then he could be all yours. JD
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
Just be friends with him since you have no right intruding on their relationship. Wouldn't you be upset if you were the other girl? Jess
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

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