Old Enough to Know Love?

At age 30 I should be old enough to know if I am in love. But, I am not sure & my boyfriend is ready to go to the next level (move in together). I love being with him. But I love being alone. He is not perfect, but who is?? There is no one else I want to be with, but he annoys me 50% of the time.

Final Results

1st.
Talk to him about my feelings
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40%
2nd.
It is too soon to tell
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30%
3rd.
Don't move in until I know if I am in love with him
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20%
4th.
Accept it, I am in love
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10%

Comments:

If you are in love then you will now it. You will not question it. You willnot wonder about it. You will just now it.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
This has made my day. I wish all psoitgns were this good.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
U r prolly in love. i mean, who relly knows wat love is anyway?? maybe this is it??? maybe you will love him more & more &more threw time.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Talk to him about what you are thinking, what you are feeling and what your concerns are. If you talk it out you will feel better and maybe actually realize that you ARE in love! CV
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Once you move in with your boyfriend there is only 2 things that can happen, either you end up getting married or the relationship itself ends. So it is a big move and you need to be ready before you do, but have a chat to him about your feelings so he knows where you stand, he should understand
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Being annoyed 50% is a fair bit of your time, if you move in together you will be in each others faces even more so that could become an issue. It doesn't mean you shouldn't move in together but you need to be conscious of what it will be like and only move in once you both feel you are ready to.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
you could try being with him say 3 nights on, 4 nights of? so, stay at his for 3 nights, stay at home for 4 nights. if he asks why, just say that you need your own time- and if things go okay just up it a day every now and then until you are more certain.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Even married people need alone time. Secure relationships respect that so that shouldn't be an issue. No, he isn't perfect and neither are you. It's good that you recognize that. What is troubling is that you are annoyed with him half the time. Because of that, I suggest that you not move in with him right now but be upfront with him as to why. If he bolts, then you know that you made the right decision. If he is understanding, then you have a gem and you might want to work a little harder at being more tolerant. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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