Never Had a BF!!!

I am 17 and haver NEVER had a BF. Made out with a few guys but they NEVER call later and even when I text they blow me off and I NEVER hear from them again. LITERALLY, all of my friends have had at least one longterm BF meaning like more than 3 months. Help Me!!!!!

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Solution One
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100%
2nd.
Solution Two
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3rd.
Oh Forget it, no hope for Me
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This "free sarhing" of information seems too good to be true. Like communism.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and stop making this a big deal because when it is not a big deal or you are not even looking any more then that is the day that it will happen for you.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I know saying "Be patient" is probably the last thing that you want to hear, but it is really the truth. Everyone moves at their own rate and this will happen for you. Make yourself accessible on a gf level, but a little less on the 'make out' level. Jane
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Sometimes it just takes more time for some people and you may very well be one of those people. As you wait patiently, try to cut back on the making out since that is not really getting you anywhere. Jess
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Judging from the number of exclamation points you use, your overuse of the absolute expression, NEVER, and your "no hope for Me" statement, I think you bring a lot of drama to the table. A huge turnoff for guys. Also, the correct order of things is: 1) get a boyfriend for longer than a couple of dates then 2) begin the kissing/makeout part. You're going about this backward. And tone down the drama. Please. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Spend less time making out and more time getting to know guys. Ask your friends to set you up. Wait a little while b4 getting overly involved with kissing, etc.
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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