need advice

ibeen w my boyfriend 2 1/2 years were pretty serious have a goodrealtionship but lately hes changed like he doesnt do the same lttle things that meant alot anymore and it honestly breaks my <3.i try 2 bring it up he thinks i just want 2fight idntkno wat 2 do anymore ,somtimes i just want to give up

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1st.
just give him space and let him come to me
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50%
2nd.
leave comments pleasee !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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30%
3rd.
move on even though its hard
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20%

Comments:

Has there been anything surrounding him lately that might negatively affect his outward mood? Maybe someone did something or something happened to make him act the way he is. Sometimes it can be outward things that affect inward and maybe this has nothing to do with your relationship at all. Give him a bit of space and see where things go. ~Moony~
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
4 out of 5 responses say to talk. Ya know what 4 word a guy hates to hear more than any other? WE NEED TO TALK.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
Have a real talk with him and tell him your real feelings and if he doesnt understand and if he doesnt wanna change and if he doesnt want wat u want then leave.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
Have an honest conversation with the boyfriend and let him clearly know your expectations with regards to this relationship. If he is not on board, then move on. Lynda
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
Talk to your bf and try to come to an understanding about what you both want out of this relationship -- if it is not the same things, then get out of it. Yesenia
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
Why are you stressing over what you, yourself, calls "little things". You already said that you have a good relationship. In two and a half years, I would expect some things to change but that doesn't mean that it's for the worse. Imagine how things change when someone has been married for 25 years. If you demand that he do those same little things when he no longer wants to will build resentment and damage your relationship. I think you are making more of this than is necessary. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
talk to him about how you feel :)
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago

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