My mom is sick and my fiance wants me to move with him to LA

My fiance has just accepted a job offer in LA, and will move there at the end of March. He wants me to go with him, but my mom has recently been diagnosed with cancer and I do not want to leave her.

Final Results

1st.
Stay at home with mom
-
53%
2nd.
Wait until we find out more about mom's illness
-
34%
3rd.
Go to LA with boyfriend
-
13%

Comments:

If your fiance wants to pull ypu away from your mother in her time of need because of his own sucess he isn't worth any trip anywhere. He should be fully supportive of you staying with your mother. As one of the previous statments said, she was there through all of your illnesses. And in the end no love is stronger than a mothers and she would stay with you.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
I'd have to say stick around, find out and be there for mom..she's the only one ya got, and she was there through all your illnesses...once you find out the whole situation with her..go from there. Would not leave her alone though...I'm sure she could use support, and there's nothing like a daughter.
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
i agree with the person who has commented before me
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
You can't possibly leave your mother right now... you also need to make your fiance understand this... talk to him about it maybe you could work around it all.
Added by mrs_trinh - almost 2 years ago

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