My boyfriend says i dress like a skank

I have a great figure and like to show it off with short skirts and lots of cleavage. My new boyfriend is very critical of what I wear and even called me a 'skank'. Otherwise he is a really cool guy, so i don't know what to do.

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1st.
tell him i make the decisions about what I wear
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46%
2nd.
keep dressing sexy but tone it down a bit
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38%
3rd.
go for a completely new style
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16%
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if he dont respect u and ure style, dump his ass.
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
If you were already dressing like that before you two got together, then he already knew that side of you, and should have embraced the whole package by now. It's up to you how you dress, how little or how much you want to show. Tell him he can give his opinion on it (without insults!) , but ultimately it's still your decision.
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
Same with my boyfriend! I guess he says it in a nicer way, though. When I wear something that shows a bit more of my cleavage, he would say, "Believe me, I'd love to see your boobs but I don't want you to wear anything revealing like this in public a
Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago
If he loves u! he doesn't want perverts drooling over u, and as a guy he'll know how much!Guys have this ability to say things in the worst way! tell him u didnt like how he said it, but ask him what he meant. if u love him tone it down! he's really the o
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
My bf totally does this too! He's just jealous cause I have better tits :) Get some people to compliment what you wear in front of him - I don't mean sleazy old men, I mean stylish women etc,
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
YOu clearly like this guy not to have left him already for that comment - and so he must of told you how he feels cos he cares about you and wants to be honest! If you like him - tone it down - you can still show of your body and style with out going over
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Why are you dressing like that? To get attention. To get male attention? Well if you have a boyfriend you shouldn't be trying to catch the eye of other guys. If you want to be with this guy then his opinion should matter to you. You can still look beautif
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
Go for a completely new style including a new boyfriend.
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
I can't believe he said that to you, you deserve better!
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
he should be proud of your body, he sounds insecure and should get over it! it's your body and you should do what you want
Added by Anonymous - 7 months ago
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