My boyfriend is too laid back, and I have to shoulder it all

He cant think of what he wants to do with his life. Hes still in highschool (because he skipped all the time), doesnt have a job, and he wants me to move in with him. Im working full time to pay for university and I dont want to be responsible for him too. I love him, but I dont know what to say

Final Results

1st.

Break up with him, because he won't change

69%

2nd.

Try and force him into a direction of somesort

15%

3rd.

Explain my feelings(again- Ive done this before)

4th.

Stay with him, and hope he grows up

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Comments:

you've given him chances,. and some people dont change, or even just dont want to. maybe moving on will make him relise this

Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

Being in the same situation, i suggest moving on. Its what i plan on doing. My boyfriend and I have spent some time apart, and the stress of his situation off my back, has made me a happier person. Everyone has to grow up, and accept that with age comes g

Added by Anonymous - 6 months ago

For some people, life doesn't work out as easy as others! If u wanna be with him stay with him, but just explain, u cant move in with him unless he is helping out! Hopefully it will motivate him to achieve but means u can still b with him! If it drags on