My boyfriend and I were together for the best 3 years. Everything was perfect until his sarky x girlfriend started causing trouble. We eventually broke up. He got back together with her and I went and

.Now after only 2 months he realizes i the love of his life but I now have to go away in a month for a job. I now know that he is the love of my life, but if I stay I lose my job. What do I do?

Final Results

1st.
Dont take the risk. Follow your career and ditch him
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100%
2nd.
Follow your heart and choose love. Risk it all for love
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0%

Comments:

ask him to come with you, if you really are the love of his life he'll do anything to be with you, if not then after what he put you through he doesn't deserve you and you shouldn't have to lose even more because of him!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Last one to utlizie this is a rotten egg!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Nope! Dont do it! Never ever let a guy hurt your two times since once is enough! GOod luck with you!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Go with your career! He has already disappointed you once. If you two are meant to be then it will happen. He needs to go out of his way and show you that he really cares!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
not exactly ditch you, but follow what you want to do. dont let a guy hold you back if you love someone else or have an amazing job opportunity
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Forget about this one === not worth it == the ex is not gonna go anywher == and who wants that in theyre life FOREVER!
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
I would never trust him again and I don't know how you could either! Don't walk away from this guy...RUN AWAY. And best of luck to you. JD
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Follow your career, because if he realizes your the right girl for him, he'll follow you (and beg you to come back -> maybe).
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Personally, I just don't think it is worth the risk. He hurt you once and even if you get back together that will always be in the back of your mind. Move on. Hillary
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago
Choose both. If he is honestly in love with you, it won't matter that you are elsewhere. If you are afraid that if you move, he will go back to his ex, then he isn't really in love with you. Are you saying that if you had not broken up in the first place that you wouldn't have applied for this job? VOE
Added by Anonymous - 5 months ago

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