My boyfriend and his number..

I checked my boyfs ph just 2 see what the time was and realised that there was a girls name I hadnt seen before when I asked him about her he was quick to say just delete it I asked again and he told me had met her on fb and got her number and they were going to meet in town for a harmless drink..

Final Results

1st.
Dump him?
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78%
2nd.
Stay with him?
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22%

Comments:

well if he says for a harmless drink im sure its fine
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
hmmm... seems fishy to me. Go with your gut. only you know the way he acts... if he's been distant or weird around you then something's probably up. but if you didn't have any reason to believe something was going on before you saw the number, then its probably nothing (yet). Just communicate (without being irrigating) with your guy. and if it's truly a friendship, ask to hang out with them together... if they truly are just friends it shouldn't be an issue....
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
There is no such thing as a harmless drink unless it's with a genuine friend or an old auntie or something. He was quick to try and cover this up when you first asked so I say ditch him and move on!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
It's not harmless. It's sneaky and that has the potential to hurt you. What motivated him to want to meet her? That is the big question in my mind and "because I was curious" isn't a satisfactory answer. Something's up, here. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
As long as he's being honest and not hiding things from you you shouldn't worry. Making a huge deal and acting jealous is only going to push him away and keep him fron always being honest with you.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
uhm....keep your eyes open for them
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
at least he told you he was meeting her, but still casual drinks is a little shady spesh as they met online, what boy with a girlfriend needs to meet a girl online for casual drinks? very shady actually, i would just ask him about it further, if you still dont think he's being truthful you need to get serious and lay down the law.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
All I have to say is who meets on a girl on fb to have a harmless drink!!really need to get into that and talk about it!!!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
TALKKKK. communication is key. why did he feel the need to talk to another girl on facebook? does he talk to other girls on facebook? are you okay with that? In order to be in a lasting relationship you both have to be open and honest. You also both have to allow yourselves to be vulnerable. Just be honest about what you want and expect, and see what he has to say. Make your decision from there.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You should stay with him but be very cautious. Try to have a series of honest discussions with him about the status of your romance and if you feel like he is not being honest then you need to dump him. Steph
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
harmless drinks are never harmless drinks! dump him he'll only do it again.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Why's he meeting girls on fb and going for 'harmless' drinks with them if he's going out with you, would you do the same with boys? I'd be pretty concerned if I was you and I'd be asking for an explanation as to why this is happening as in why he met her in the first place and why he's going for a drink?
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Its not a matter or dumping him or staying with him. All you need to do is talk to him about the situation and find out how serious it is. Ask him why he kept this a secret from you. Good luck!
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
You should have a serious conversation with your boyfriend.a Tell him to be honest and try to be open to him
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
It shouldn't be a stay with him or dump him situation. You have to talk to him about it and really find out if it is something you should be worried about. If you trust him, than don't be obsessive, but if it is consistent and you see signs of cheating then you really need to put an end to it. But honestly, the first step is to really talk to him and figure things out, it shouldn't be just a decision like that, unless it has happened before. --El
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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