My boyfriend and his ex

okk well i have this amazing beyond perfect bf except for one thing he is extremely good "friends" with his ex's he only has 2 and just the other week he went and had dinner at one of their houses but he wouldn't tell me where he was going I found out by accident.we are 17 i love him so much .

Final Results

1st.
Be worried
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85%
2nd.
There is nothing wrong, they are just FRIENDS!! thats all.
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15%

Comments:

The only thing that concerns me is that he didn't tell you about it, if they were just friends why didn't he just tell you where he was going?? JH
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Has he given you a reason not to trust him in the past, if not I think you need to give him the benefit of the doubt and trust him
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
If he really loves you, then he should respect your wishes. If you're not comfortable with him going over to his ex's house.. then tell him that. Or that he isn't allowed to be that friendly with his ex's. See if he follows that, then you'll know if he truly loves you.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Some of my best friends are ex's but I don't sneak off to their houses to have dinner with them. It doesn't feel right that your "beyond perfect" boyfriend is doing this. Obviously you suspect that there is more to this than just dinner so what makes him "beyond perfect"? That doesn't make sense. He sounds a little suspect to me. Keep your eyes and ears open and your brain engaged. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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