My bf is 19 & still in college. I'm 21 and just graduated

I love being with him, he treats me like gold, but I'm worried now we're in different stages of life. We were dating at school, but is it worth it to try and stay with him until hes graduated? He's more mature than I am, but i am self concious about the age difference and if ppl are judging me.

Final Results

1st.
Stay with Him. He's a good guy, age is just a number.
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82%
2nd.
Break up.. I'm wasting my time with someone too young
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18%

Comments:

Are you saying that you can't wait a couple of years for a guy who you may want to spend the rest of your life with? Come on!!!! Either you love this guy or you don't. Make a decision. And your mother is full of it. In fact I am 2 years younger than my wife and we're doing just fine and neither her reputation nor mine has ever been affected. It's time for you to commit to him and that means you quit stressing about a mere two year age difference. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
take it from me who's his best friend he's OBSESSED with you and you should stay with him
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
My mom thinks dating him will ruin my reputation and people will think I'm desperate to be dating someone younger than me. But I'm 100% happy with him.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
well if hes treating you right and your happy why do you care if people are judging you?
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
I'm sure it will be rough on both of you trying to adjust to being separated but if you really think he's that great of a guy youshould definitely put the effort into trying to make things work. And don't ever worry about what othernpeople think of your relationships! If you like him and he treats you well that's all that should matter.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
dont waste your time with that LOSER!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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