My bestfriends use drugs

I have to befriends who booth sometimes use drugs at like partys and stuff they also drink but I don't want to do that stuff I would rather just hangout and sometimes they expect me to do it and there really good friends to me I just see what drugs and alcohol can do to you

Final Results

1st.
Just don't drink or drugs
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66%
2nd.
Make new friends
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31%
3rd.
Shut up and do drugs and drink
-
3%

Comments:

tell them how you feel and that it makes you uncomfortable in those situations
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
i'm 20 years old and met my bestfirend in grade 9. shes has drank excessively all through high school along with having sex with random guys at house parties where she lives and smokes cigs and weed. i have NEVER smoked, drank, or had sex and we are as close as can be. All my friends smoke, drink etc... everytime i'm with them they offer me stuff and i decline. Be your own person and make the decisions for yourself! you can still be friends with people that do stuff you don't agree with, just make it clear that your not down to do it yourself.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You are in charge of you. Don't cave to pressure when you don't really want to. You will regret it and hate yourself later. You might need to find different friends. It sounds like your interests and values are vastly different than these two. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
drugs and alcohol can change who you are, so you should stop hanging out with them, and if u meant that much to them, they would stop
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
get your self out of the bad stuations
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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