MOVING ON IS HARDER THAN ANYTHING! COMMENT PLEASE! :'(

this guy and i had this thing together, we really liked eachother, but i said we should just be friends, he stopped talking to me, but i might still have feelings for him... he ignores me when he see's me and talks to my friends infront of me, im really hurting.... :'( TIPS ON HOW TO MOVE ON?

Final Results

1st.
tell him how i feel, even if he doesnt feel the same way
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45%
2nd.
move on, he was never worth it
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35%
3rd.
tell my friends to stop talking to him, it hurts to much
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19%
4th.
secretly cry myself to sleep
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0%

Comments:

You dumped him. He's hurt. How do you expect him to react, like nothing happened? If you have feelings for him, you shouldn't have dumped him. You can't go messing with other people's feelings without there being consequences. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Oh my gosh! I know exactly how you feel. The same thing. Well you can't tell your friends who and they can and can't be friends with because you cannot control them therefor try to move on, time heals everything.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
i know everyone says this but the only thing that will help you move on is time, as time passes you will forget about it, even if you don't think so now, depending on how much you like him all your feelings might not go away but most of them will and you will find yourself thinking about him less and less as time goes on.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
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Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Maybe that guy wasn`t looking for any serious things. Maybe he just wants to flirt with you. Dont waste your time on someone like him. Because seriously, HE IS NOT WORTH IT.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
talk to him about it. tell him how you feel. you'll never know what could happen. take actionn. your the one who said to just be friends & obvio hes hurting cus hes trna get you upset by tlkng to yur friendss. let him know wasssup
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
Literally I know how you feel. Don't think about him, text him, fb him ect. I cried so much, but Hun he's not worth it. Find a friend you can hug too :)
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
i know how you feel , the same thing is happening to me . it hurts so much . i hope it turns out okay for you !
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
I think talk to him about it, he's obviously still hurt and reacting by trying to get you upset. If you say to him that you regret your decision and would like to get back together n see what happens. If he doesn't want to then its time to move on and then you should speak to your friends to let them know how much its hurting you when they speak to him
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago
How to move on: Do not call him. Do not email him. Do not text him. Allow yourself 10 minutes a day to think about him. Surround yourself with positive and supportive folks.
Added by Anonymous - 12 months ago

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