Most confusing dilemma

Why am I the one that always talks first? Cause he's always on my mind. Why won't he talk to me? Probably because he's with the other girls, or I'm just not in his head. I don't know what to do. What if, he texts me out of nowhere? Do I answer it?

Final Results

1st.
Girl, move on!
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73%
2nd.
Keep talking to him.
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27%

Comments:

hes shy and is probably thinking the same thing as you
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
You are the one to talk first because you have decided to do it. No one is forcing you so if you are not comfortable doing it then just stop. Guys like girls who are hard to get, that is just the way of the world.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Maybe this guy is just shy and you should just try to be more patient with him. Stay open to him and try to keep him talking -- he will come around eventually. Brandon
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
If you are not getting what you want from this relationship or whatever it is then you need to move on to some new guy. You should never have to be the person to always make the first move.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
You probably already know the answer to this & it is to just move on. If he wanted to talk to you, he would. If he wanted to text you, he would. If he wanted to be with you, he would. Make yourself a little less available to him. Scotty
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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