Messed Up Relationship

So my ex who I am still really good friends with is dating a girl from another country and he claims to really care for her but he is constantly flirting with me and bringing up stuff we did when we dated such as a few times we were intimate. Am I right in thinking he still likes me?

Final Results

1st.
Maybe you're reading into this too much
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56%
2nd.
He definitely still likes you
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44%
3rd.
No, he just likes thinking back to the old days
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0%

Comments:

Sounds like he likes you. BUt it sounds like he is sending kinda mixed messages. Talk to the dude about it and get it straightened out.
Added by Anonymous - 30 days ago
It is possible that you are reading too much into this -- if he says he has a gf that he loves, then you need to take him at his word for that. But just ask him and put this behind you. Lynda
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
He is acting like someone who is interested in resuming a relationship with you. Can you straight up ask him about it? If you feel comfortable doing so, you should. Olivia
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
Here is some insight into the mind and reasoning of a young guy. He remembers the sex. In his mind, since he's already had sex with you, there is a good chance that you would be willing to do it again. So he flirts with that in the back of his head. The other girl is irrelevant. He may be intimate with her, too, but he's a guy (a sleaze at that) and he figures that if he can have two girls, then why not? He's not so much into you as he is into the prospect of a sexual adventure. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago
He sure sounds like he is into you and I can't help but wonder if this other girl was created just to make you jealous. The next time he starts flirting, just ask him what's up!JD
Added by Anonymous - about 1 month ago

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